Unfortunately, stress
has become an inevitable part of our everyday life. Whether we are neglecting
our healthy diet, trying to achieve or take on more than we are able to do,
worrying too much about the things we can't control, having difficulties in
making decisions or just feeling irritable or anxious about everyday problems
at home, work, school, etc., the diagnosis may well be that we all find
ourselves falling victims to unmanaged stress.
There are different
kinds of stressors, or causes/resources of stress, e.g. responsibilities, a
long list of things to do (or we impose ourselves to do), work, school, family,
children, bills, pressure, moving house, marriage/divorce, etc. The list
becomes longer and longer every day. These stressors may affect individuals
differently, or individuals may respond to them in a different way. Our body
immediately reacts when we are stressed out, e.g. we may experience stomach
upset and increased heart and breathing rate, our palms may sweat, we are
'fueled by adrenaline' and our body becomes physically ready for 'a threat'. In
that way, we become ready for 'the fight or flight response'.
Unfortunately, a
prolonged or unmanaged stressed-out condition can lead to long-term health
repercussions. Therefore, an important part of dealing with stress and anxiety
is our ability to recognize stress and develop personal strategies for dealing
with stress. There are healthy and unhealthy ways of dealing with stress. While
the healthy ways (e.g. meditation, exercise, healthy food, time management,
asking for help, etc.) may help you to reduce stress and relieve symptoms, the
unhealthy ways (e.g. unhealthy food, alcohol, smoking, caffeine, physical
violence, bottling up your emotions, etc.) may actually mask the symptoms and
causes of stress, and even introduce some new stressors or increase the effects
of stress in the future.
It is important to
remember that stress is a normal reaction to the demands of life. We should all
find out our own best ways to manage stress and decrease its negative effects
in our lives. We should think about how we can incorporate healthy stress
management into our everyday lives.
Discuss these questions
with your classmates on our blog:
What are the most
common situations that make you experience stress in everyday life?
How do you feel when
you are stressed out? What are the most common symptoms in your case (e.g.
emotional (feelings), physical, mental (thoughts))?
What is/are your
way/ways of coping with stress?