Tolerance can be defined as 'willingness to accept
feelings, habits, or beliefs that are different from your own' (a definition by
Merriam-Webster) or as 'a fair, objective, and permissive attitude toward those
whose opinions, beliefs, practices, racial or ethnic origins, etc., differ from
one's own' (a definition on Thesaurus.com). Or to put it in a simple way,
tolerance is the ability to accept diversity and to live and let other people
live. Follow these links to find out more about: the etymology of the word'tolerance' and related terms, and tolerance synonyms and antonyms.
If you are tolerant, then you are supposed to endure
practices that you are not related to or that you do not approve of, and also
to demonstrate an objective and fair behavior towards those whose ways of
thinking or behaving differ from yours. If you are tolerant, you respect and
learn from others, you are willing to value differences, reject stereotypes, bridge
cultural gaps and create new bonds with other people. Many researchers have
pointed out that the level of tolerance that you have can actually be
attributed to the level of happiness and contentment in your life.
Nevertheless, some paradoxical questions still emerge, such as – 'are tolerant
people happier, or are happier people more tolerant?'
At the same time, tolerance does not mean accepting
all kinds of behavior, especially those which show disrespect for others, i.e.
lying, stealing, bullying, being mean, hostile or aggressive towards others, etc. Behaviors that disrespect or hurt others
should not be tolerated. To tolerate actually means to treat others the way you
would like to be treated.
If we want to live a full and healthy life in
today's world, which is considered to be a rich blend of different cultures, ethnicities,
nationalities, races and religions, then we have to learn to appreciate others and
be tolerant to the differences that coexist. Being open to see new things and
learn about other people without having negative prejudices about them is a
form of tolerance.
The International Day for Tolerance is on November
16th, established by the UN General Assembly in 1996 and you can read more about
it following this link.
"On the International Day of Tolerance, let us recognize the mounting
threat posed by those who strive to divide, and let us pledge to forge a path
defined by dialogue, social cohesion and mutual understanding."
Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon
You can also watch
a video with
portraits from Cambodia, the
Netherlands, Spain, France, the United States, and Australia to celebrate the
International Day for Tolerance: 'On selected international days the United
Nations Regional Information Centre for Western Europe (UNRIC), in partnership
with the Good Planet Foundation, share clips from the ‘7 billion Others’
project to communicate the fears, dreams, ordeals, and hopes of citizens from
all over world.'
The part that
might be of particular interest for us is Article 4 – Education, which I will
quote in its full length here:
Article 4 - Education
4.1 Education is the most effective means of preventing
intolerance. The first step in tolerance education is to teach people what
their shared rights and freedoms are, so that they may be respected, and to
promote the will to protect those of others.
4.2 Education for tolerance should be considered an urgent
imperative; that is why it is necessary to promote systematic and rational
tolerance teaching methods that will address the cultural, social, economic,
political and religious sources of intolerance - major roots of violence and
exclusion. Education policies and programmes should contribute to development
of understanding, solidarity and tolerance among individuals as well as among
ethnic, social, cultural, religious and linguistic groups and nations.
4.3 Education for tolerance should aim at countering
influences that lead to fear and exclusion of others, and should help young
people to develop capacities for independent judgement, critical thinking and
ethical reasoning.
4.4 We pledge to support and implement programmes of social
science research and education for tolerance, human rights and non-violence.
This means devoting special attention to improving teacher training, curricula,
the content of textbooks and lessons, and other educational materials including
new educational technologies, with a view to educating caring and responsible
citizens open to other cultures, able to appreciate the value of freedom,
respectful of human dignity and differences, and able to prevent conflicts or
resolve them by non-violent means.
For more about
educating for tolerance, you can follow this link.
Secretary-General Ban
Ki-moon emphasized the importance of education in the fight against intolerance
by saying:
'We must instill in [children] a respect for diversity before
intolerance has a chance to take root, and a sense of vigilance in case it
threatens to do so'.
Educators all over the world should teach tolerance and
respect for the other and different, while at the same time making attempts to
identify and fight against intolerance. There is also a guide for educators – Tolerance: the threshold
of peace, published by UNESCO in 1994.
Speaking about tolerance
generally, you should also remember that December 18th is marked as the
International Migrants Day, which you can read more about using this
link, where you can find
this quotation: 'Migration draws increasing
attention in the world nowadays. Mixed with elements of unforeseeability,
emergency, and complexity, the challenges and difficulties of international
migration require enhanced cooperation and collective action among countries and
regions. The United Nations is actively playing a catalyst role in this area,
with the aim of creating more dialogues and interactions within countries and
regions, as well as propelling experience exchange and collaboration
opportunities. To mark this year’s International Migrants Day, the
International Organization for Migration (IOM) is calling on the international
community to come together and remember the refugees and migrants who have lost
their lives or have disappeared while trying to reach safe harbour after
arduous journeys across seas and deserts.'
For our class
discussion on the blog, think about tolerance and our lives, and how does
tolerance weave itself throughout our society? Think about how tolerance is
used in many different areas of life from a personal to a national perspective.
Take a moment to think about your own lifestyle: your behaviors, actions,
thoughts, and the environment you live in. Do you think you are a tolerant
person? Explain. Do you have any examples of tolerance 'in practice', i.e. of
tolerant or maybe intolerant behaviors in your family, among your friends, in
your neighborhood or local community, at the faculty/university, in our
country, or elsewhere? Share your stories and opinions with your classmates
here. As a future teacher, how would you teach your students to be tolerant and
respectful of others? What obstacles might you encounter? How would you help
them differentiate between tolerable and intolerable behaviors?
You are welcomed to
share your attitudes, ideas and thoughts with us.